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Not everything that happens in the sky is a natural occurrence. I believe that, occasionally, God reminds us of His presence though other means. When I looked into the heavens and saw these crossing contrails, I was still reminded that He is present, He is watching, and He cares about me.
38 Years and Counting
Today my wife and I celebrate our 38th wedding anniversary. I know that she is a precious gift that God prepared for me and I know that my life would not be the same without her. She is absolutely the best thing that ever happened to me and I am ever thankful that she is my wife. I probably don't tell her that often enough.
In a day and age when half of all marriages fail, one might ask, what is the secret to a successful relationship. Here are my thoughts from several years ago.
Secondly, marriage is a partnership. Like any relationship, it takes work to maintain that relationship in peak condition. A happy marriage doesn't "just happen". Both of us are committed to the relationship and to each other because we love one another and it is our desire that our partner be happy in this relationship. No major decision in this relationship is made without prayer and conversation. God is not the author of confusion, therefore He will not give my wife a different answer to an issue than the one that He gives me. Again, God created the institution of marriage for our benefit, not for our demise.
Finally, I married a woman far better than I deserve. I thank my Lord and Savior for her every day. My wife is the most thoughtful, caring and giving person that I know. Proverbs 31:10-12 says, "An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life." I have found that woman. Proverbs 31:25-30 further states, "Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she smiles at the future. She opens her mouth in wisdom, and teaching of kindness is on her toungue. She looks well to the ways of her houselold, and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and bless her; her husband also, and he praises her, saying: Many daughters have done nobly, but you excel them all. Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised." I married such a woman.
So, back to the original question, "What's the Secret?" The answer is, you have to give yourself to the marriage. You have to give yourself to your spouse. Whatever you have within you, you have to "Give it Away."